Why is it that we often feel the need to judge others? I often catch myself passing judgement. Is it a necessary condition of being a human? There are very few things in life that are black and white, perhaps it's our attempt to create absolutes in a world often filled with grey. There are absolutes that we live by however what do we gain by judging others? When I judge someone am I not being selfish and discounting the person I've judged?
Relationship OCD is the term given to obsessions that focus on: fear of getting in a romantic relationship, fear that you are in the wrong relationship, fear that you don't love the person that you are with, fear that having romantic feelings for someone other than your significant other means that there's something wrong with the relationship you are in. By no means is this a complete list of fears but I hope you get the idea. Relationship OCD is something that really bothered me at one time. It still bubbles up from time to time but not with the intensity or frequency that it used to. I remember experiencing a lot of sadness and pain with this obsession. When it first started bothering me, my fiance meant everything to me and I felt so alone and helpless because I had been able to talk to her about what was bothering me. This was so different than other OCD obsessions because I could at least talk to her about them or let her know what was bothering me. With ROCD I felt that ...
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